Kirvelik is a very important social and cultural phenomenon in Turkish culture. It is a centuries-old tradition, especially in Anatolia and various Turkish communities. Kirvelik is the name given to the family or individuals who will take part in the circumcision or baptism ceremony of a child. This relationship creates a kind of kinship between families or individuals, even though they are not related by blood. It is usually taken very seriously and the people with whom the kirvelik relationship is established have a very respected place among the families. In Turkish culture, kirvelik is not only a part of a ceremony, but also a social mechanism that enables the establishment of a long-lasting and permanent relationship.
CEREMONIES
Kirvelik usually occurs at the circumcision or baptism of children. The family or people who will be the kirve will be with the child at these important moments and help the ceremony to take place in a healthy way. Often, the people chosen as kirve are close friends of the family, respected elders or neighbors.
SOCIAL AND ECONOMIC ASPECTS
The Kirvelik relationship is not only ceremonial. It also creates solidarity between two families economically and socially. Especially in rural areas of Türkiye, kirvelik is seen as an element that eases the economic burden and encourages social cooperation within the community.
LEGAL AND ETHICAL ASPECTS
In Turkish culture, kirvehship is often taken very seriously and brings with it certain legal responsibilities. For example, in many Turkish communities, marriage between kirves is generally frowned upon. Families in a kirvelik relationship help each other fulfill their moral and social obligations.